jasper hid in the closet when r. came home. he has a big fear of suitcases, which mean cat carrier, which mean travel, which means outside, which means fear. he came from outside, he dreads going back.
when r. left again he came out and i gave him some food, but he walked away. i followed him with the bowl and he ate slowly. he usually inhales it. he left half and stood in the corner looking traumatic.