How does one know? Don't worry, you'll know when you know, and you'll find comfort in knowing, and likely have the feeling you've always known.
When things happen now it seems as though they already happened and we're just becoming aware of the afterimage, or ghost image. I sometimes think of this as the afterlife. This happened, and we are witness.
We're in a polytraumatic earth catastrophe driven by the warmongering genocidal class. Resist the empire of destruction in whatever way you can. It's existential. Corporate capitalism is class war. The democratic party serves the capitalist class war state. Socialist revolution for survival.
Every day I lift up the comforter and say hi to Queen under the bed. Today she came out singing.
unknown numbers of children are buried in unmarked graves without
their deaths being recorded or are simply missing.
How to pick a grave? It's like we want it to be the perfect spot, like in paradise. Nothing's perfect, and if there was a perfect spot, it might not be perfect for eternity. Things change. But eternity's now, it's time, and we'll go crazy if we can't decide.