When Trudy would ask why is this happening to me? We'd say we don't know, it's just one of those things, and she'd sing Qué será, será, and we'd all join in. We wanted to say give us a sign if you can. Maybe we can call her by singing her song. Also, whenever I hear Son of a bitches! I'll smile and think of her, and when my whole body hums, I'll know that it is good.