you don't want to say everything happens for a reason just to make yourself feel better, and if it's a random universe it's even more astounding. in a way. i guess it's obvious if we say everything happens for a reason it's us who's supplying the reason. humans want a reason for everything in nature including human nature but when they apply human reason nature gets lost. why always comes back to why us. individually we want to make sense, but collectively, we're mad, and we don't give a damn as long as we're right.