i know sometimes the things we find intolerable are things we have in common, and that's reason to think critically about both. this leash is too short. this person won't even let the dog walk on the grass. i've shortened the leash myself when i get frustrated and the dog is walking crazy, but this dog seemed calm and just wanted to sniff the strip of grass by the sidewalk. i'm thinking, this is a walk? the dog must be so frustrated. of course i don't know the story, i only see this moment. it makes me think about how i walk and how i'm seen.