it could be he's just more adamant about what he wants
he's getting to an age when you don't only want to please others or go along to get along
it's still about always trying to work it out
we get to a corner and he wants to turn and i want to go ahead 
after a brief struggle i win and he gets his apple
i write r
think hes getting dmentia
nnnnoooooo!
don't mention it
in draft 
wen someone's mind goes it's like
they're moving away from us
slowly receding
like a dream
but they're still here
if we can't recall them
we can go to them and
hug them tight