barb's uber driver offered her a prayer, he said he prayed for all his passengers. 
she said maybe i should have let him, after all, he was driving me. no surcharge.
i said i think it's the same as a placebo, which works, but only if you believe it's real medicine. there's the trouble she said. i think if my uber driver wanted to pray for me, 
and he believes, and he holds my life in his wheeled hands, it's not about me, and i might believe in him.