Saturday, November 20, 2021

unconscious strategies.



 much of what happens seems like a game, with deadly consequences. the physical fix is largely determined by power and corruption. but we have to treat our instinctive beings with respect especially given the game would annihilate our very essences. 

 i'm not a very strategic thinker, but i see unconscious strategies play out with such arrogance they might appear inevitable and fore-ordained. 

 i could go on about this and probably inevitably will. 

 obama thinks he's sharp but he's unconscious, or he wouldn't have done what he did or do what he does. 

 but i started this post or intended to present what my inbox presented to me this morning namely this from daily om:


Most people have come to accept that conflict is inevitable. 

What many do not realize is that most of us use unconscious strategies

called control dramas to gain power or energy from another person, and

to essentially, "get their way with others." A control drama is played by

anyone who is feeling low on power or energy, to manipulate and steal

the energy of another. We get our way with others by making them pay

attention to us, and then elicit a certain reaction from them to make

ourselves feel fulfilled. The positive feelings we gain are won at the

expense of the other person, and this often causes imbalance and drama

in our interpersonal relationships.



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