the word of the day is control. i lost control yesterday. it should have been the word of the day yesterday. there's not much we can control, and the lack of it can drive you crazy. we lost control of the government. we never had it, but we lost it. as kids we had no control of where we lived or with whom we lived. we think we'll grow up and then we'll have some control of our lives, but we struggle to find control of our own mind.