most of us don't want to change. we keep on being ourselves. versions of ourselves. but what happens when an event occurs that is catastrophic, that you just change from one day to the next?

we change from the known person to an unknown person, so when you look in the mirror, you recognize the person that you were, but the person inside the skin is a different person.

so that when you go outside the world is the same, but now you are a different person, and you have to renegotiate your position in the world.

                                                                                                      nick cave