being alone together. it's easier with dogs. i been alone so long, since a was a kid i was a solitary, with animals. being with r. i sometimes withdraw into my solitude, dwelling in the diary or blog. i need to observe solitude, and gradually learn to be alone together with a girl. i may need to be physically alone part time yet and i got that little studio for that so all could be naturally unfolding without pressure and all accomodation have our blessing.