We finally picked a grave, but I forgot to take a picture. It was 104 degrees but the spot we picked was cooler, shaded and calm. A long process, we began looking in April. It was hanging in the air and even this morning I said I don't know how we'll ever decide, and one place returned to for another look was taken. But then we saw a place we rejected early on and suddenly it was now clear it was the right place. The general manager came by excited and said Hi, family! welcoming us to the graveyard. There's even a spot next to our spot, for us, if we want a earthly home for eternity by Trudy and Joe.