you should never be here too much; 

be so far away that they can’t find you, 

they can’t get at you to shape, to mold. 

be so far away, like the mountains, like the unpolluted air; 

be so far away that you have no parents, no relations, no family, 

no country; be so far away that you don’t know even where you are. 

don’t let them find you; don’t come into contact with them too closely.

krishnamurti