When David was gone the house felt different but more settled. I know Copp and I are kind of in our own world but we feel things distinctly. I don't claim to know all he feels but i know how he feels to me and i think we feel the same in a way though neither can rightly articulate the feeling perhaps. I watched Aloha last night and two boys had a whole conversation in looks, with subtitles, and it was spot on. so the look really is the feeling is the meaning, unless the face is masked. 
So we are here while the memorial is there, we say we will be there in spirit, though really our spirits will be here, swimming and basking in the love and benevolence we feel for one another. 

How could you be so happy all the time? It strains cerdulity. Yet, when i look at you, I feel happy too!
 

If you think about it, it's a mystery. I'm just smiling because I'm happy, and I'm just happy because I'm smiling!