it's galling when someone says try harder, your angst is hurting me, when you know how hard you try. anyway, my angst is my own, to share as i will, as is everyone's. people who are hurt by someone else's angst are most probably hurt by their own. i understand the wish to exteriorize. angst is not easy. and it's endemic to the human condition in the built world. though angst can be a focused and sane response to a culture of insanity.