thinking about this. is it obsessive? i do it too much at r.'s cuz i cant at home or. r. says it's obsessive. i say you have attention deficit. and you have disorder, she says. 
i laffed, nervously, the librarian darryl said a similar thing, but he blamed his online obsession on his girl for having the connection. meanwhile, r. is doing my laundry (this is sooo0 ripe), and sewing buttons on my comforter, and cooking. i said, it's a funny thought, thinking about all the boys blogging at their girls' while their girls do all the practical stuff. it's funny. it's not funny r. says. i need to find balance. oy.