i love uncle jim. when we went to south bend he was kind and gentle and silly, like his mom weezie. we had not gone for some time and i'm so glad we went recently. he may not have much time left. i remember when uncle jerry, jim's brother died, he came to me in a dream and gave me such a hug the night before i got the news. i send jim a spirit hug like jerry gave me, full of love and appreciation.