so mom moved to the villages 40 years ago when it was a trailer park. now it's a thrumming throbbing megalopolis of golden oldies. she's losing her memory and objects like keys. they need to go someplace but they just want to stay at home and i can relate to that. i don't want to leave home either. we moved too much when i was young. i want to stay home until i die. there's only one mom but she left when i was in high school and i can't live in the villages, it's so unreal. so each day it changes. you don't get your memory back when it goes it's gone like mom but she's still here or there.