a couple things happened with building people i don't want to call neighbors but they are and you can't choose them and you can't move because they're there too, anyway a couple unpleasant ones, one was when charlie barked and jumped on her dog, which is annoying, but it happens, they're dogs. another guy i knew since mister, and i was always nice to him and his dog, looked at me and seemed to scowl and look away. i know it's most likely them, their obscured inner life, not me, but sometimes i think i spark that kind of reaction. some people are just mean or in misery. i get fixated on that, yet most interactions are happy ones.