oh and you know that little brown dog hater? sure you do or another, well i heard from my sweet elder radical friend the hater's neighbor, that the hater is not righteous but crazy, and tried to run my friend over in the parking garage with her two tiny american eskimos. 
i know this doesn't change things, but it helps me think, when i think of haters, to think of them as just crazy, and i don't have to waste money on therapy.